昨天, 我喂他喝奶, 忽然间, 他又发脾气,不但不肯喝, 还拼命大哭大闹. 不管我怎样好言好语地安慰他, 他就是闹. 最后, 我生气了, 骂了一句, "喂! 够了啊!" 他吓了一跳, 盯着我... 不到两秒钟, 他闭起眼, 张开嘴巴, "哇!!!!" 一声, 哭得更大声... 而且还哭得很凄凉. "呜哇...呜哇..." 哭得像是被我们抛弃似的, 好可怜哦... 到后来, 没办法停止他, 就把他放在床上,而且很不客气地瞪着他. 他哭了一阵子后, 发现不对劲了... 因为平时我与牛牛肯定是在抱他, 哄他... 怎么今天没人睬他呢? 于是,他张开眼睛看看周围, 发现我那生气的眼神正在瞪着他. 他楚楚可怜"唲... 唲... 唲..."地叫我, 像是叫我疼他, 抱他. 乘这个机会, 我很严厉的对他说, "妈咪不喜欢你这样乱发脾气的. 不喜欢你如此乱乱哭, 乱乱喊. 你这样乱发脾气, 妈咪很不高兴!" 说完, 只见他泪汪汪, "噢.. 噢.." 了几声, 却不敢哭出来... (哈! 这招行得通!)
见他平静了点儿, 我摸摸他的头, "乖, 别哭了. 哭得妈咪好烦. 对妈咪笑笑, 妈咪立刻抱你, sayang你..." 语毕, 我对他笑了一笑... 结果, 他立刻展出他最甜的笑容... 我抱着他, 心都溶了...
BB was throwing tantrum these few days. "enjoy" crying for no reason...
Yesterday, while I was feeding him half way, he again fussed and crying and screaming. I was trying my best to calm him, but it doesn't work. & at the end, it reaches my limit and I scolded him in mandarin, "Hey! Enough!" He stun for a while, and..... CRY even louder! and the crying tone turned up to be very sad, sounds like being abandon by us (so pity....) Worst still, I can't stop him and I myself starting to lost control. So, at the end, I put him back to his cot and stare at him angrily.
He cried for a while and then realized something wasn't right. He stopped and looked around. He then saw me staring at him, and he was trying to catch my attention by calling me ,"uh... uh... uh..." and I replied him in a firm tone, "Mummy doesn't like BB misbehave like this. Mummy is not happy with BB throwing tantrum like this!" Tears rosed in his eye, but he did not cry out, keep saying "hmm... hmm..." (aha! it works! I learned this from the book "secret of baby whisperer")
He quiet for a while, and I soften my voice and continue, "Good boy, don't cry. Give mummy a smile and then, mummy will hug you and sayang you." & I smile at him... Guess what? He then show his sweetest SMILE at me!! Oh my dear Pier...
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Smart boy! Testing boundary already.
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